There is this guy, we have been flirting a little with the last couple of months. That ended this weekend.
He said something like this:
“I like you, but contact me when you have lost a few.”
It´s not that it´s untrue what he said, and I´m working on just that. Losing a few pounds and inches. But for a guy to say things like that are not cool, not at all. He like me, but I don´t look good enough for him. I have to lose a few to be that?
What does that really mean?
He likes the person I am, but not the way I look?
I can understand that, but if I lose a few my looks will be pretty much that same. So it´s just the ponds he don´t like then, right?
Heres the thing I don´t get.
Does he really think that I would be interested in him after he said that?
In my eyes I´m done with him, and if I contact him again it will never be to pick up what we maybe could have. Not a chance.
It would then be to just, I don´t know to show him that I did lose a few?
I don´t even think I would do that. I have nothing to prove to him or anything, so why would I do that?
There is this other thing that I wonder too.
Could it be just something totally different that is the reason? That there is more to the story? Something I don´t see?
Not that I´m hiding behind that as the reason, and stop working on my self. Because I´m not. I had a great start on this year, lost around 12 pounds. But after my doctor said I couldn´t work out for two months it´s been hard getting back and sins my neck still not working properly it´s hard getting back to do a real good work out. I´m afraid to make it worse.
But back to the other thing, what would you have done if someone told you to lose a few and then contact them?
I give him and every other person that has said something like that a thumb down.